Tuesday, March 6, 2012

How would you deal with your partner behaving like this?

I am with a guy who adores me - from what I can see. He never lets me down and always looks out for me, supports me etc.

However, he is always making out that he is a ladies man. At first it was cute, but now it just annoys me. Our daily conversations revolve around the females he has met and how they have praised him in some ways. Or he reckons they have fancied them.

He has said that he is attracted to various characteristics, none of which I have (e.g. green eyes, oriental features). I am starting to feel a little insecure now.......



Should I stay with him, as he is really good to me otherwise? Or should I go. I have tried talking to him about this, he listens, but then the subsequent conversations he will say "i am not saying this to make you awkward or jealous but this lady today......."



AARRGGGHHHH!!! Please help? How can I deal with this? Why am I getting annoyed - are there any others who have a technique of dealing with this sort of behaviour?How would you deal with your partner behaving like this?
i would find it annoying and honestly i could not deal with it. it seems harmless enough in the fact that he is just insecure enough that he wants validation... seemingly all day every day? is he really all that? you'll just have to decide if it is worth it, i wish i had some coping methods... all i can think is if you were to start doing the same thing to him.How would you deal with your partner behaving like this?
Act like you don't care. He may just be trying to get a reaction from you. Also, give it back to him by talking about a handsome man that you met.How would you deal with your partner behaving like this?
Why don't you use the same tactic with him then, I mean when he started talking about other women, you can also start talking about other men. But you have to do it convincingly like you are really, really interested in the guy or he really made a big impression on you. See what his reaction would be. If that didn't work, just dump him. I am sure there are other men out there who are more appreciative of you than he is.
He's insecure. He feels insecure and by speaking those things out loud that he is wanted, loved, etc....its like his psyche is comforting those other feelings of worthlessness or unattractiveness. Start watching him and see if that seems accurate....

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