Do you reckon she would ever go out with me or should I move on?

I liked this girl from work a lot, I'm almost 20 and here is basically the jist of it.



Things I did wrong:

鈥?Met her in November 2010, yet waited till February to ask for her number and asked her out late Feb/March.



鈥?Talked to her too often probably, she would have thought I was obsessed with her. Not daily talks or anything but if I was at the shopping centre where we work and she was working I鈥檇 come and talk to her but even then that was only around 3 or 4 times from January to February.



鈥?Didn鈥檛 play 鈥榯he game鈥? made myself out to want her too much without making myself 鈥榳anted鈥?



鈥?Didn鈥檛 try to make myself 鈥榟ard to get鈥?br>


鈥?Asked her out over the phone instead of in person, this was because I didn鈥檛 want to ask her out at work which although I believe it鈥檚 a valid reason considering customers/staff could walk around and hear it, I should have manned up and done it face to face



鈥?I think in my lone opportunity where I think I might have had a chance was Boxing Day 2010, we were both working and she asked me if I was going to a local nightclub on the night and I said 鈥榶es鈥?and she smiled and said 鈥榮ee you there鈥? I didn鈥檛 get in till about 12am because of the line and as I walking past in the outside beer garden she grabbed my arm, stopped me and kissed me on the cheek and we talked for 2-3 minutes. I couldn鈥檛 seal anything because she left the club not long after as she had an early flight the next morning because she went with a few girlfriends to another state for New Year鈥檚 2011. I should have asked her out not long after she got back, maybe even ask for her number on that night in the short time I had.



鈥?When I did ask her out to the movies and she said 鈥榶es鈥? I didn鈥檛 set a date or time because I asked if she was busy in the next week and she said she was so I said I鈥檇 get back to her. (ROOKIE MISTAKE!!!!!!, I can鈥檛 believe I was such a stupid idiot!)



鈥?When I asked her out to coffee a few weeks later with a date and time, she said 鈥榮he鈥檇 get back to me鈥?when I asked and again when I saw her the next day at work (I was there to check my schedule and I bumped into her)



No wonder she didn't want to go out with me, this is my first time experiencing rejection and it was with a girl I pretty much fell in love with me, just my luck :-/ If only I could press the restart button on her, I reckon I'd have a better outcome the second time :( She's really beautiful and a great girl so to find someone else hurts especially cos I might have had a shot with this one :( Oh and since about June I haven't really talked to her on my accord



I've gotten fitter in the last few months since joining the gym, went from 16.5% bf to 12% already and although I was never 'fat' whilst I've known her, I look a lot more fitter and starting to tone and gain muscle. Do you reckon she would ever change her mind and go out with me or do I move on?Do you reckon she would ever go out with me or should I move on?
to me it sounds like she likes you and by you saying let me get back to you on that she took it as you playing hard to get and so she just played it back. i would suggest asking her to hangout for like an hour just be like hey i would really like to talk to you just us i have some things to say that you need to hear and if she agrees just tell her your feeling for her and bring her flowers girls love when you bring them flowers i would suggest just a nice bright bouquet you can get them pretty cheap from your local supermarket. I hope it works out for you. i ve been in this situation flowers always work :)